••> Three human desires drive you every day.
••> Three human desires drive your partner.
••> Three human desires drive your children.

What are the three desires?

NOTICE: The October 2, 2021 seminar has been rescheduled to November 20, 2021.

See what people are saying afterwards, like this:

“This has been so beneficial and insightful! I thoroughly enjoyed how this seminar was taught by Dave with wisdom, humor and real-life examples of vulnerability. Great resource and I have been a counselor for many years! I highly suggest investing in yourself with this training.” (JoAnne N., MSW, LCSW, BCPCC)

One hour of counseling is $80-$250 in Green Bay. This seminar delivers five hours of “aha-moment,” life-changing material for $49. (This seminar is non-profit and the only reason we charge anything is to try to cover costs.)

You will see your marriage, parenting, and relationship problems clearly. QUESTION: Do you really know why you do what you do?

When you understand the DEEPEST reasons for your child’s behavior, your parenting responses will be more productive and wise.

Painful relationships can drain you mentally and physically. The next time you’re trapped in raw conflict, what would you pay to fix it?

What are the human desires really? Because American psychologies don’t understand human desires, they teach “nature/nurture” theory, which can be helpful, but there’s something deeper that drives behavior.

After the seminar you’ll be able to answer these intriguing questions.

This seminar provides immediate impact to anyone needing marriage counseling, couples therapy, or parenting help. Read the reviews.

Can’t pay? Contact us here–we have limited scholarship funds available.

“Your biggest problem is not your circumstances. Your biggest problem is not the people around you. Your biggest problem is you and you don’t understand human desires.” – Dave Bender

“So many people are surprised that things aren’t rosy and beautiful after seven to ten years – things are stale and stilted. But if we can be intentional early on, that’s a path we don’t need to take.”Dr. Adrianne Fletcher

The Three Desires Seminar is presented by The Counseling Center at Bay City, a service of Bay City Baptist Church of Green Bay, WI.

Ready to make your next chapter better than the last?


  • “It’s a wonderful conference. I wish more people knew about it.”

    Laura G.
  • “Excellent – second time attended. Very worthwhile to attend again. (& apply principles).”

    Female (name not given)
  • “I greatly appreciated the well-structured presentation of information which helps me to understand interpersonal relationship struggles more objectively. Thank you!”

    Male (name not given)
  • “Very informative! This seminar gave me many things to think about and to work on changing. Great information that was presented well. Thank you!”

    Lisa G.
  • “Very important message applicable to the way we live moment by moment. Overall it was a delight to be a part of your conference.”

    Jodi L.
  • “God spoke to me directly regarding Desire #3 when it was asked ‘Isn’t it biblical for your spouse to put you 1st under God’…He told me ‘That is GOD’S EXPECTATION OF OUR SPOUSE & HE WILL DEAL W/THAT, RELEASE THAT EXPECTATION OF YOUR SPOUSE – THAT IS THEIR SIN – DON’T MAKE IT YOUR SIN’ That is HUGE FOR ME!!!”

    Lindsey W.
  • “Very good at going over three desires and explaining what they are. Could spend more time talking about the hope we have that was touched on in the end. Overall it was worth the time spent learning about and thank you very much.”

    Female (name not given)
  • “The specific outline of my mind and motives in present day context reveals problem areas that require attention.”

    Male (name not given)
  • “This opened my eyes from a different perspective. Thank you! During lunch God placed Dave at our table for insightful conversations!”

    Denise R.