“The information shared in this seminar is life-changing…. I would recommend this seminar to anyone wanting to have better relationships and better knowledge of self. Thank you!” — Stephanie S. Licensed Professional Counselor, SAC

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LESS EXPENSIVE…YET BETTER
Counseling will cost you $80-$250, but this event delivers five hours of life-changing help for $99. (Due to generous donations, the October 10, 2026 seminar is free. Use promo code “free” when you register.)

THE MASTERCLASS PROMISE
You will finally grasp the real roots of your marriage, parenting, and relationship conflicts. After this intensive event you’ll be able to answer these intriguing questions. QUESTION: Do you know the real reasons why you do what you do? This masterclass will totally reframe how you see yourself and others.”

PARENTING STRUGGLES?
You will understand the REAL reasons for your child’s behavior so that your parenting actions are more helpful.

EXHAUSTED BY CONFLICT?
Hard relationships drain you, right? The next time you’re trapped in raw conflict, what would you pay to fix it?

PSYCHOLOGY MISSES IT
Because psychology doesn’t understand desires, they teach nature/nurture theory instead. While somewhat helpful, it doesn’t go deep enough to change lives.

IMMEDIATE IMPACT
This event provides immediate impact to anyone needing marriage counseling, couples therapy, or parenting help. Read the reviews.

CAN’T AFFORD THIS?
Don’t let money stand in the way! Contact us here — we will arrange for you to attend for FREE.

“Your biggest problem is not circumstances.


Your biggest problem is not people around you.


Your biggest problem is you.”


– Dave Bender

The Three Desires Seminar is presented by The Counseling Center at Bay City.

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  • “This seminar was very educational, and explained a lot of things about the ‘Three Desires’ that are called out several times in the Bible.”

    Richard M.

  • “Very insightful. Gave me a lot to be able to self-reflect as well as to understand and be able to love others better. Thank you!”

    Jenika S.

  • “It is a very informative and great way to build better relationship within yourselves and with others. Has helped me become a better person by recognizing the desires I have, and finding solutions to them in any relationships…”

    Tia P.

  • “I am thankful for the work Dave has put into understanding the human struggles we all face…I look forward to seeing how this will affect my life, relationship with Christ, and others going forward.”

    Nick D.

  • “This seminar is a game changer when it comes to seeing our life’s desires…Dave keeps it interesting with a hot of ‘A Ha’ moments. Definitely worth your time.”

    Jana A.

  • “The information & wisdom explained was beneficial and enlightening – life transforming.”

    Nicole T.

  • “I didn’t know what to expect going in and I was pleasantly surprised and well pleased. The course was organized, methodical, and kept my interest at all times. This is a relatable course applicable to anybody! What a better world it would be if everyone took this class, IMO, the earlier on in life the better.”

    Christine M.

  • “This was such an eye-opening seminar. It helps you understand why we do what we do. It is right to the point and done in a way that is easy to understand. It helps you understand what the root problem is and how to fix it.”

    Mark W.

  • “Relationships have extreme value. It is so worth the time to learn how our core desires play out in our lives & relationships. Relatable stories, helpful metaphors & applicable teachings were presented clearly, with excellence. Thank you!”

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