••> Three desires drive you every day.
••> Three desires drive your partner.
••> Three desires drive your children.

READ THE REVIEWS
Read these reviews to see what people say immediately following the seminar.

LESS EXPENSIVE…BETTER
One hour of marriage counseling or family therapy is $80-$200 in Green Bay. This seminar delivers five hours of eye-opening teaching for $59 ($99 per couple). QUESTION: Can your counselor or therapist tell you why you do what you do?

A PROMISE
You will see your marriage, parenting, and relationship problems clearly. Then you’ll know what to fix. (This will enhance other counseling you are in.)

ARE YOU A STRUGGLING PARENT?
When you find out the reasons for your child’s behavior, your parenting responses will be smarter and more productive.

DID YOU GOOGLE IT?
If you Google “three desires” you’ll find Buddhism and Maslow. This isn’t that.

HARD RELATIONSHIPS DRAIN YOU
Good relationships are priceless, and the painful ones drain you mentally and physically. The next time you’re trapped in raw conflict, what would you pay to fix it?

PSYCHOLOGY MISSES THIS
Because American psychology doesn’t understand human desires, they must look at “nature and nurture.” But the deepest answers aren’t found there.

BEFORE YOU LEAVE, SEE THIS PAGE
You’ll know the answers to these intriguing questions after the seminar.

IMMEDIATE, POSITIVE IMPACT
This seminar provides immediate impact to those seeking marriage counseling, couples therapy, or parenting help. Read the reviews.

Can’t pay? Contact us here–we have limited scholarship funds available.

Have you heard this 30-second spot playing on local radio?

 

Here’s a 50-second clip of Adrianne teaching:

 

Here’s a 44-second clip of Dave teaching:

 

“Your biggest problem is not your circumstances. Your biggest problem is not the people around you. Your biggest problem is you.” – Dave Bender

 

“So many people are surprised that things aren’t rosy and beautiful after seven to ten years – things are stale and stilted. But if we can be intentional early on, that’s a path we don’t need to take.” – Dr. Adrianne Fletcher

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  • “Thank you! My family & I were in a chaotic time and beginning of a healing place with a lot of work to do. Three Desires has opened doors for all of us. We are now seeing where each of us struggle and how to help each other redirect. As well as recognizing potential conflicts before it gets out of control. Thank You”

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  • “I see how ‘dark’ my heart is from this training, not condemning. But it’s good to see that we’re all the same.”

    Rex R.

  • “This has been so beneficial and insightful! I thoroughly enjoyed how this seminar was taught by Dave with wisdom, humor and real-life examples of vulnerability. Great resource and I have been a counselor for many years! I highly suggest investing in yourself with this training.”

    JoAnne N. (MSW, LCSW, BCPCC)

  • “This seminar opened my eyes to see the desires of my heart, and what I need to do with them so that I’ll have less conflict in my marriage.”

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  • “This seminar opened my eyes to a lot of blinders that I had. It revealed to me the root issues in my life not just the symptoms.”

    Tim H.

  • “This training helped me understand who I am and how I am supposed to act.”

    Patrick T.

  • “This really opened up my eyes as to how my household runs, especially with the ‘directors.’ I am interested to see how this plays out moving forward.”

    Ashley T.

  • “This training opened my eyes to a new perspective that has changed how I see myself and others and the reason for our behaviors.”

    Name Withheld

  • “This helped me see myself & others at a deeper level, good examples & illustrations that were easy to grasp, good practical tips.”

    Ashley