“The information shared in this seminar is life-changing…. I would recommend this seminar to anyone wanting to have better relationships and better knowledge of self. Thank you!” — Stephanie S. Licensed Professional Counselor, SAC

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LESS EXPENSIVE…BUT BETTER
Counseling will cost you $80-$250, but this event delivers five hours of life-changing help for $99.

THE MASTERCLASS PROMISE
You will finally grasp the roots of your marriage, parenting, and relationship conflicts. After this intensive course you’ll be able to answer these intriguing questions. QUESTION: Do you know the real reasons why you do what you do? This masterclass will completely reframe how you see yourself and others.”

PARENTING STRUGGLES?
You will understand the REAL reasons for your child’s behavior so that your parenting actions are more helpful and precise.

EXHAUSTED BY CONFLICT?
Hard relationships drain you, right? The next time you’re trapped in raw conflict, what would you pay to fix it?

PSYCHOLOGY MISSES IT
Because psychology doesn’t understand desires, they teach nature/nurture theory instead. While somewhat helpful, it doesn’t go deep enough to change lives.

IMMEDIATE IMPACT
This event provides immediate impact to anyone needing marriage counseling, couples therapy, or parenting help. Read the reviews.

CAN’T AFFORD THIS?
Don’t let money stand in the way! Contact us here — we will arrange for you to attend for FREE.

“Your biggest problem is not circumstances.


Your biggest problem is not people around you.


Your biggest problem is you.”


– Dave Bender

The Three Desires Seminar is presented by The Counseling Center at Bay City.

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  • “I didn’t know what to expect going in and I was pleasantly surprised and well pleased. The course was organized, methodical, and kept my interest at all times. This is a relatable course applicable to anybody! What a better world it would be if everyone took this class, IMO, the earlier on in life the better.”

    Christine M.

  • “This was such an eye-opening seminar. It helps you understand why we do what we do. It is right to the point and done in a way that is easy to understand. It helps you understand what the root problem is and how to fix it.”

    Mark W.

  • “Relationships have extreme value. It is so worth the time to learn how our core desires play out in our lives & relationships. Relatable stories, helpful metaphors & applicable teachings were presented clearly, with excellence. Thank you!”

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  • “Dave’s material opened my eyes…”.

    Nick F.

  • “Having an understanding helps me have relationships with others. Having an honest description of the wickedness of my heart, helps me to address the issues, and strive toward making decisions to change…”.

    Roland W.

  • “The Three Desires does give some valuable insight. It’s worth sitting through. Just ready yourself, there’s a decent amount of notetaking.”

    Gavin M.

  • “I have never been to a seminar like this before and I actually enjoy learning new things as a 23 year old fiance. I came to learn new things. I really enjoyed it…leaving with a full mind and would definitely come again.”

    Heather W.

  • “This conference was relatable and easy to understand.”

    Susie M.

  • “…Dave explained the three catagories of basic human desires. He provided examples of how these desires affect our relationships, and how we can identify them. He peppered this with a few stories and his simple illustrations (they are much like a coach uses to demonstrate a football play). In the end he provided the solution and brought it all together. I enjoyed it very much.”

    Jennifer S.